Thursday, August 8, 2013

Taking the Unwired Mom 2 Week Challenge

I have joined Sarah Mae's Unwired Mom 2 Week Challenge.  While I don't feel addicted to the internet, I have jumped down the "rabbit hole" and watched 5 minutes turn into an hour or more.  I want my children to have memories of me interacting with them - not seeing me hunched over a laptop or racing to answer a text.

When I worked outside the home, I was tethered to my work phone - 24 hours a day.  I really noticed the impact after I was done working.  I no longer needed to be tethered to my phone and I had the luxury of answering calls and messages as desired.  But it took my family over 6 months to get used to this new found freedom.  The phone would "beep" and one of my children would go running for my phone and rush it to me - "here Mommy!"  I felt so sad, and a little angry.  What had I done to them?  What was I teaching them?



Fast forward a year or two, and they have calmed down on the phone.  But now there is the internet and Facebook - good tools if used wisely.  A plethera of information is literally at our fingertips - recipes, crafts, birthday ideas, answers to questions.... But do I really need to know what Susy fed her cat for dinner?  (Okay, I am exaggerating here....slightly)  There is SO MUCH information it can quickly become TMI - TOO MUCH INFORMATION - and overwhelm and muddle our minds with needless input.

Over the past few weeks I have been sensing the need to stream line and guard more carefully what information "goes in".  The Holy Spirit knows exactly what I need to know.  If I will listen, He is always faithful to guide and help me (and you).  I am reminded to go to Him first, not the internet where I can easily slip down into that rabbit hole and emerge an hour later thinking "where did I just go?"

When I saw Sarah Mae's challenge, I jumped in.  I think my children will enjoy this challenge with me.  And what a great way to gear up for the new school year - spending 2 weeks practicing being present with my most cherished blessings - creating a new habit of enjoying the moment WITH them.

So, ready or not, here I go!

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Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Our Curriculum for 2013-2014

More than ever, it is burning in my heart that my children (and my husband and I) come to an ever deeper heart knowledge of God, so that we can be strong and boldly carry out all that He has for us to do.

Daniel 11:32b NKJV
but the people who know their God shall be strong, and carry out great exploits.

With that in mind (and deep in my heart), I am endeavoring to tailor our "school" around our theme of "Knowing God".... We may get to everything on list list, but probably not.  We will endeavor to be led daily by the Holy Spirit - delightfully discovering God, His amazing creation and His purpose for us through our studies this year.

Bible
Family Devotions: daily Proverb, prayer & time of worship (we have our favorites that we sing together)
Bible Memory  (also handwriting/copywork) - something I am putting together that will focus on our relationship with God.
Child Virtue Bible
The Beginner's Bible
We Choose Virtues
It Couldn't Just Happen - Fascinating Facts About God's World

Language Arts
All About Spelling 2
All About Reading 2
AOP LifePac Language Arts 5th grade
Institute for Excellence In Writing - Student Writing Intensive B, Bible Based Writing Lessons, Rockets & Radar Writing Lessons
IEW's Fix-It Grammar
IEW's Phonetic Zoo
www.spellingcity.com
Bob Jones Explorations in Literature

Math
Singapore Primary Math - 1B, 2A
Singapore Primary Math - 5A & 5B
Math-U-See Zeta
Teaching Textbooks Pre-Algebra
Right Start Math Games

Science
Christian Kids Explore Creation Science
Neosho Chemistry I & II
Apologia General Science

History
The Mystery of History III

Extras
Mango Languages - free through our library
Home Economics using AOP LifePac
Health (5th grade) using Abeka
Art and science experiments provided at our local children's and city museum
Free online typing lessons - Dance Mat
Soccer and dance

Broken down by grade -

2nd grade
Family devotions & Bible memory
The Begnner's Bible
We Choose Virtues
Calendar Time
All About Spelling 2
All About Reading 2
Singapore Primary Math 1B through 2B
Noeo Chemistry I
The Mystery of History III
Art, science experiments, and soccer

5th grade
Family devotions & Bible memory
Virtue Training Bible
It Couldn't Just Happen
AOP LifePac Language Arts 5
Adventures in GrammarLand
Singapore Primary Math 5A-B
Christian Kids Explore Creation Science
Noeo Chemistry II
The Mystery of History III
Health
Art, science experiments, and soccer

6th grade
Family devotions & Bible memory
Virtue Training Bible
It Couldn't Just Happen
IEW Student Intensive B, Rockets & Radar
Adventures in GrammarLand
Fix-It Grammar
Phonetic Zoo, Spelling City
Math-U-See Zeta
Christian Kids Explore Creation Science
Noeo Chemistry II
The Mystery of History III
Health
Art, science experiments, and soccer
Typing

8th grade
Family devotions & Bible memory
Virtue Training Bible
It Couldn't Just Happen
IEW Student Intensive B, Bible Based Writing Lessons
Fix-It Grammar
Bob Jones Explorations in Literature
Teaching Textbooks Pre-Algebra
Christian Kids Explore Creation Science
Apologia General Science (2nd half of book)
They Mystery of History III
AOP Home Economics
Dance
Typing
Mango Languages



I have linked up with the ihomeschoolnetwork.com 5th Annual Not Back To School Blog Hop - to see what others are doing, click here.




Saturday, May 11, 2013

I thought I had a resistant reader. Turns out the words on the page are not cooperating!

For those of that may have a "resistant reader" ....

I have had the hardest time getting my youngest to read. He can sound out almost any word and he is a good speller, but ask him to read a simple book or even a sentence - forget it! Finally one day he told me that the words "bounced" on the page. After he was tucked into bed I did a google search and came up with this -http://www.childrensvision.com/reading.htm

Low and behold there were pictures of words that showed various vision problems. The next day I asked him if any of these pictures were what he saw and 2 of them were (the ones that depicted eye tracking and eye teaming problems).

So I found on the HSLDA website a link with ways to do preliminary testing at home for problems. I did the tracking test and sure enough, his little eyes bounced and did not seem to track properly. (My little guy was not just being lazy or defiant about not reading!)

Well, while waiting to get him formally tested, I stumbled upon some online exercises to try with him. Here is the link:

http://www.eyecanlearn.com/index.htm#Letter Saccades

I hope this helps someone and I am interested to hear any other suggestions or experiences regarding reading and vision that you may want to share.

Blessings! - Lisa

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Today I Will....

Today I will take time for what really matters:

Take time to enjoy God's presence.  To see His gifts everywhere and enjoy the wonder of His goodness.

Take time to enjoy my children, precious gifts from Him.  Focusing on building relationships and enjoying this season that I have been given with them, for time passes quickly and I do not want to miss a thing.

Take time to focus on character before curriculum.  Checking my heart, what do their hearts need today to be successful?  Science lessons they may eventually forget but the heart instruction that forms lasting character will go with them for life, and their success.

Take time to focus on blessing my husband.  What can I do for him today that will bless him or make his life easier or more pleasant?

Take time to focus on others.  Being ready to offer encouragement and help to whomever God leads me.

Take time to receive GRACE from heaven to be the woman that God created me to be.


Friday, March 29, 2013

The Big Move

I cannot believe that it has already been 4 weeks since we arrived in New Mexico.  Time sure flies when you are having fun!  At the same time, it seems like we have been here longer - and it fits.  This is funny because if you would have asked me if I ever would have imagined my family living "out west" my answer would have been a definite no.  Up until recently I did not like the west, cowboys (except my 6 yr. old dressed up as one because he is irresistibly cute), and especially not western movies!  However, God must have been preparing my family because for the last year or so my husband and 4 children religiously celebrate "Western Saturday" by snuggling in and watching shows like "High Chaparral," "The Virginian," "Big "Valley," and "Bonanza."   I have even been roped into "Dr. Quinn" reruns!

Well, I am falling in love with the West, and the people here.  Making such a big move was a giant leap of faith for our family.  Yes, we have moved out by some of our very closest friends whom we consider family and our kids call "aunt" and "uncle" - but everything else was "God, we are trusting that we are hearing from You and that You are leading our steps."  Jeff did not have a job yet and we did not have a place to live.... and I sometimes wondered, "Will we fit in there?"

Well, I am thrilled to share that Jeff does have a job, he is a store-manager-in-training at a local book/entertainment venue.  God has provided in jaw-dropping ways for our family.  We  have a home - a ranch actually - on 6 acres!!!  (More about that later.)   We were blessed with groceries to restock our pantry the night we unloaded our moving truck, which was a huge blessing since I have given most of our pantry items away to friends before we moved.

What we see some mornings in our front yard.
We had been down to 1 vehicle for almost a year and were making due.  Someone came up to us and handed Jeff and I each a key - we were so confused - an explained that we needed a second vehicle so I could get around with the kids while Jeff was at work.  A Chevy TAHOE!  Jeff and I were speechless with our mouths hanging open.  How does a simple "thank you" work in that situation?

The next week our children were given a new trampoline, a big blessing since we live "out" and it gives them lots of exercise and play time.  They are never bored between the trampoline, the long road for bike riding, and the neighbor's horses.

And, best of all, we LOVE our church and it is a FIT for us.  This has been the EASIEST adjustment for our 4 children - they are so happy.  God is just SO GOOD and FAITHFUL.  (Good news - He is no respecter of persons.  He wants you to experience His goodness and faithfulness in your life too.)

I feel like I can breathe again......


How has God shown His goodness to you?  Please share!


Monday, September 3, 2012

Our Homeschool Room!

This is the first year (in 6 years) that we have had a whole room dedicated to just homeschooling!  Thanks to my wonderful husband for the idea and help to make this happen.

Grammar wall with write-on wipe-off area for day's sentence, and weekly Root words and Spelling info.
 15 foot timeline! Plus a space for everyone.  We may switch to individual desks in the future.
 1st grader's area with easel (he likes to move so standing for many things is better for him) and separate desk for 7th grader and mom to share.
 Table for 4th and 5th grade sons to share (and 1st grader too at times)
 My teacher tools crate
 Each child has their own color coded crate with their work inside
 And a mini color coded crate for supplies
School crates are on the floor next to their spaces
Curriculum closet - Top shelf has past schoolwork, Then we have supplies and crafts, to the left are shelves for science, math and history.  In the middle are more supplies and a shelf for language arts.  To the right are shelves for learning games and sewing supplies.  Everything is in here  except for readers.  Readers are in the living room in bookshelves.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Last Days of Summer - Fun - Try This at Home!

It has been a scorcher in the Ozarks this summer and very few days have been spent outside.  Talk about Cabin Fever in a whole new way!  Finally, as our planet is moving on it's orbit around the Sun, we have had a break in the weather with some cooler days and much cooler nights.  (Insert huge amounts of gratitude here!)  And so, the boys (and girl) can once again venture outside for the  better part of the day and I am grateful that our school principal (aka Daddy) has reminded me that school NEVER officially starts until after Labor Day.  This gives the teacher (me) a few extra weeks to prepare for a stellar year (by His grace) and the children some extra time outside gathering in vitamin D while playing and breathing deeply of fresh air.  There are noises of nature all around us, a beautiful chorus singing to our Creator.

And then, what is that EXTRA noise?  We don't have any motorcycles in our neighborhood.
Ahhhh, it is MY boys!   Take 1 bike and 1 empty water bottle and you can transform said bike into a noise-making, motorcycle-imitating machine!





Saturday, July 28, 2012

Summer Painting Fun

Here is our painting craft for the summer.  We went to Michaels and purchased canvas on sale 50% off and acrylic paints on sale for 29 cents a tube.  We (or should I say, me) traced the letters onto contact paper and placed them onto canvas.  Then, we had fun painting whatever we wanted.  Finally, we peeled off the contact paper, and voila! Our artwork was done.  
We are all excited to try some more painting again soon.










Friday, March 2, 2012

Leaping for Science

Today, we took the opportunity to do some leaping for Apologia! They are having a fun leap day contest - take a picture of leaping for Apologia and win $100 gift card for their products! 
Apologia Science has been an excellent resource for our family for the past 4 years.  So far, we have studied Astronomy, Botany, Zoology 1 (flying creatures), and now Anatomy & Physiology.....and we do not plan to stop!  We already have Zoology 2 (swimming creatures) and General Science on tap for the fall.

Boy, did we have fun trying to get some serious air!!! 





Monday, February 20, 2012

Legacy of Love

8 years ago today my best friend stepped into eternity.
Has it really been that long since we have shared a laugh (we had many) or held each-other in a mother-daughter embrace? She is forever in my heart, and missing her never goes away; some days, just a hint of missing, and others an intense ache. 
There are questions I have, especially now that I have my own daughter who resembles me in many ways, and whose best friend I am.  'What was I like that at 12? What did you think?  You never seemed impatient.  How did you do that?' 'Mom, guess what! Remember when I did...your granddaughter, she is too!'
I don't feel that my mom is missing out by not being here, how could she be? She is at the feet of Jesus.  I don't feel that we are missing out either.  God, in His goodness, has provided love and added to our family in marvelous ways that leave me in awe.  It's just that I miss her.  And that's okay...as long as I do not let missing her cause me to miss out on the beauty that God has for today. (She would not want that anyway!) I am missing her while looking forward to eternity instead of missing her looking back to what can never be right now.  So, I live with an ache, an empty place in my heart that is hers alone.  And yet, my heart is able to ever increase in its capacity to add love....expanded heart, more love, with empty, longing places...all at once.
Oh, how I am thankful that she introduced me to Jesus, impressed His love upon my heart, and taught me to love Him; and because of Him, this painful separation is not the end, but a mere speck in the expanse of eternity.  Oh what we have to look forward to!
And I am grateful for the ache, to have someone to ache for.  To have been loved so intensely that I have reason to miss her intensely.  Sadly, some have not know this kind of love.  I am one of the blessed ones.  I have the opportunity to seek out and share the kind of love my mother gave me with those that are hurting and feeling unloved. 
At the end of her time here on earth, when we all got together to celebrate her life, her memorial service stretched to 3 hours. Those who shared all spoke of her love.  Her love for God. (He is a resounding first place in her life.)  Her love for her family. (fierce) Her love for others. (faithful)
I choose to carry on her torch, passing on her legacy of love to my children; and to love others faithfully with His love, the way she did.



Friday, February 10, 2012

How Can I Keep From Singing

It has not been the easiest of weeks....just being honest. BUT I am so thankful that God is not moved by my weakness. Rather, He is ready and waiting to pick me up, hold me tight, dust me off, and give me strength to go at it ... again. (Read Psalm 18)

So here is my 'theme song' for this week:

"How Can I Keep From Singing"

by Chris Tomlin and sung by Lydia Stanley at the Bay Revival (I think it is the 2nd song...)

There is an endless song
Echoes in my soul
I hear the music ring

And though the storms may come
I am holding on
To the rock I cling

How can I keep from singing Your praise
How can I ever say enough
How amazing is Your love
How can I keep from shouting Your name
I know I am loved by the King
And it makes my heart want to sing

I will lift my eyes
In the darkest night
For I know my Savior lives

And I will walk with You
Knowing You'll see me through
And sing the songs You give

I can sing in the troubled times
Sing when I win
I can sing when I lose my step
And fall down again
I can sing 'cause You pick me up
Sing 'cause You're there
I can sing 'cause You hear me, Lord
When I call to You in prayer
I can sing with my last breath
Sing for I know
That I'll sing with the angels
And the saints around the throne

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Joyful Cooking or Grace in the Kitchen

so this week went by super fast....and it is now Saturday.....wow!

Tuesday was an amazing day in the kitchen for me. In a matter of 2 hours I had prepared:
1 large meatloaf
1 pan of lasagna
Browned meat for Wednesday's pizza
Started spaghetti sauce for a later date
Had dough rising for 2 loaves of home-made bread to be baked later in the evening
Cleaned the kitchen
Did a load of laundry

Now before you think 'stop bragging on yourself Lisa', let me explain. Tuesday was amazing for me because it showed me God's grace in the area of cooking. When I first got married my poor husband endured batches of dry ground beef and dry rice, just ask him! Needless to say, we had nachos almost every night since he was not fond of the dry hamburger. Once we started having children I started to learn to cook more, but there were more failures than successes. Then, for 5 years I worked full time outside the home and my husband did the majority of the cooking and grocery shopping. Well, that all changed this past August when I joyfully returned home full-time.

I had to re-learn how to grocery shop for our family and I am just now getting the hang of menu planning. I have even dabbled with using coupons, though so far it has been a laughable joke. One thing has changed though, much to my and my family's delight - cooking. There is a new found, never before experienced, grace on me to cook. I cannot explain it other than God's mercy (especially on the ones who have to eat it!) and perhaps the fact that I have a new attitude.

I no longer look at cooking as a drudgery. I am excited to minister to my family in this way and have watched God begin to bless the work of my hands. He tells us that He will bless what we put our hands to (Deut. 28:80). But, He also tells us to do everything without complaining (Phil. 2:14). That includes unvoiced complainings in our hearts. Our attitude counts!

Once I got that straightened out, I began to get excited about cooking and planning for my family. And, I have been blessed to see my family's appreciation. This is new territory for me and I am excited to walk this journey of cooking with the Lord helping me and teaching me all the way.

In case you are interested, here is the step by step of what I cooked Tuesday:

I started with two 3lb packs of ground beef (ours is actually "Boston Burger").
I took about 2 lbs and put in a large bowl - for the meatloaf.
I then took the remaining 4 lbs and put in a large skillet pan breaking it up as I went.
I turned the pan on med and started browning the meat - I eventually covered.

While the meat was cooking, I went back and prepared the meatloaf. I used Betty Crocker's recipe for basic meatloaf and doubled it, and I combined some homemade bread pieces with Italian bread crumbs. We had it for dinner last night and everyone liked it lots! Once the meatloaf was prepared (15 min max) I covered it and put in fridge for hubby to put in oven later.

I then drained the browned meat.
I scooped out about 1 lb and put aside in a plastic container to be used the next night for homemade pizza.
I scooped out another 1 lb and put in second plastic container - for spaghetti sauce.
I added 1 1/2 cans of 26 oz. Spaghetti sauce to the pan and poured the remaining 1/2 can of sauce in with the spaghetti meat in the plastic container.
Now, I added 1 cup of water to the meat and sauce mixture and simmered for 5 minutes.

I got out a 9x13 baking dish and started the lasagna with a recipe given to me by my mother-in-law; who, by the way, is a Martha Stewart for the rest of us. Her ideas and practical advice are great!

Mary's Easy Lasagna revised -

1 2/2 to 2 lb of meat - browned
39 oz (approx) spaghetti sauce - I used a can and a half of Hunts 4 Cheese
1 cup of water
Lasagna noodles - no need to be oven ready
15 oz. cottage cheese (or ricotta)
1 egg
McCormick Italian Seasoning grinder - 1 to 2 teaspoons
16 oz. shredded mozzarella cheese
Black olives - optional

mix cottage cheese and egg and put about a teaspoon of grinder in mix - I also sprinkle some over cottage cheese layer if I don't think I have enough. Totally according to taste

Pour 1 1/2 to 2 Cups of sauce mixture on bottom on pan
put a layer of lasagna noodles
top with half of cottage cheese/egg mixture
top with half of shredded mozzarella cheese
repeat - sauce, noodles, cottage cheese mix, shredded mozzarella - end with a final layer of sauce
sprinkle parmesan cheese over top and add olives if you like.
cover and put in refrigerator for at least 8 hours.
Bake at 350 for 50-60 min - let stand for 5-10 min

At the end of the 2 hours, I had a large meatloaf ready to bake, a large pan of lasagna in the fridge, hamburger meat ready for pizza the next day, spaghetti sauce started for a future meal, bread dough rising on the counter to be used for breakfast the next day, a clean kitchen and some laundry done!

It was gorgeous outside so I was able to let the children play outside and get some fresh air and vitamin D. :-)

God is so good and so willing to help us if we are willing to let Him!

Joyfully His,
Lisa

p.s. - my 9 year old, who normally says he DOES NOT like lasagna said he liked it - for the first time ever!  I had made 2 changes in the recipe - used cottage cheese instead of ricotta and McCormick's Italian seasoning instead of other herbs.  This made for a much more peaceful evening meal that everyone enjoyed.  God knows what will bless our family and aid in peace!









Monday, January 16, 2012

Smile

All my life I have been a "serious" thinker, not something I am proud of.  I remember when people would stop and ask me if something was wrong and I would be startled. Nothing was wrong, I was just deep in thought. 
I have noticed recently that I need to smile more, especially at my children.  If you are like me and need to work on this, smile on purpose at someone and watch what happens.  I remember when I first did this some months back.  I, on purpose, smiled at my daughter. It took her a moment, but after the initial surprise, she smiled back.  It was wonderful, and a little sad at the same time. The fact that my smiling unexpectedly would take her off guard revealed to me that that this was something she was NOT used to.  
How many times have I missed opportunities to smile at my children, my spouse, and others?  Not anymore!  A sincere smile is a valuable gift that we have the ability to offer freely to others.  It can to brighten days and instantly offer encouragement.
Did you know that a smile is not just good for those around you, but it has health benefits for you as well?
So, in addition to counting my blessings and personal devotion time discovering joy, my challenge for this week is to practice smiling more often, intentionally, to bless others...
joyfully yours,
lisa